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Toronto Star, Ontario ed.
OPINION, 
Monday, February 28, 1994

Two issues have left me standing at the crossroads wondering whether my loyalties are divided: Jag Bhaduria and the immigration quotas.

As a Canadian and an Asian, this is a tough time of introspection and reflection for me. Either way I lean, I find myself in the line of fire.

If I stress "Canadian" values and encourage my kids to sing the national anthem, I am accused of being a rootless immigrant.

If I show partiality toward my ethnic roots without reason, I feel I am being unfair to myself and to the future of my children, who are not hyphenated Canadians.

I have tried to avoid the Bhaduria issue because it already has received too much media coverage without me adding my two bits. However, when I read that Bhaduria's supporters are taking the much-travelled road of alleging discrimination and crying "racism," I have to speak out.

As an Asian, I felt very proud when Bhaduria was elected as an MP. It was a great step for Asian representation in the country we now call home. I feel more Asians need to be elected to prominent positions so that we can participate fully in the Canadian dream. However, I cannot support Bhaduria after his misdeeds. I feel I owe it to myself to judge people fairly, even if their skin color is the same as mine.

I sympathize with Bhaduria for the stress his family is suffering. But he has brought this on himself. When applying for public office, he should have realized that the media can make or break you if you are not squeaky clean. It does not matter what color you are - the media are hungry for news, and when they find something which carries weight, they go for the jugular.

The honorable thing for Bhaduria would have been to step down gracefully and lie low until this mess blows over. But he is doing just the opposite by trying to justify his actions. Does he think that checking the credentials of other MPs will make his fraud and his actions acceptable to the public?

I say this without any political motivation, but I do not believe that Bhaduria is being discriminated against. Crying "racism" is the last resort for those of us who have the advantage of possessing a skin color other than white.

If Bhaduria had been racially discriminated against, he would not have been elected to Parliament. I am sick and tried of skin color being used as a weapon. Why is it that no mention was made of his skin color when he was elected? Has it just been discovered that he is brown? Surely all those who voted for him were not brown-skinned people.

It is true that some persons may be using this incident to vent their personal frustrations against a particular party. But that is the nature of the game.

The dilemma for me is to make a responsible decision and not let Bhaduria's ethnic identity cover up for his unethical actions. It is the same way I feel about Immigration Minister Sergio Marchi's decision to allow 250,000 immigrants into Canada this year. I am not a Reformer, but I do feel that figure is too high. Yes, I am an immigrant, and I do not feel like a traitor when I say this!

The fact is that Canada needs time to sort out its problems, such as the recession and the resulting unemployment, before bringing in more people. It's not that I believe Canada's problems are caused by immigrants - it is irrelevant whom they are caused by - the fact is that the problems are here and have to be dealt with.

While saying this, I am faced with the reality that I am closing the door on many of my own people, possibly my extended family, but that is what the dilemma of divided loyalties is all about.

Copyright © 1994 Toronto Star, All Rights Reserved.

 


 

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